As far as NT bullying is concerned, my only sample of NTs large enough to make any conclusions is online. I see bullying quite frequently and it's merciless. Physically hitting someone is not the only way of bullying and intimidating another person. The thing that I notice with NTs is if you say that the bullying is hurting you (emotionally) then your reasons are quickly invalidated as illogical. And give feelers more credit, I know when someone is being themselves or being jackasses. Someone who is oblivious and then on top of that APATHETIC (!) to the impact of the actions on other people sound like sociopaths. You do a disservice to NTs by saying that. I think when they want to bully, they are very aware the effects their actions have on other people. That's the whole point of bullying. You don't antagonize someone that you know won't be responsive and you don't go after someone who can possibly beat you.