[MBTI General] ENTJ and INFJ Relationships

[chegra]

I think they would be a good match. Being an ENTJ, I find I get along extremely well with infj, especially those with a strong J.

I like to hear your opinions on this.

 

[Lauren Ashley]

Being an ENTJ, I find I get along extremely well with infj, especially those with a strong J.

Why strong J? That sounds like a lot of J going around, which only works well when you both have the same goal in mind. My J is fairly strong and a Te or Fe-dom and I not agreeing on something...let's just say sparks will fly.

 

[Ardea]

Sounds like a heartbreak brewing. But it will be fun while it lasts! Dramatic and fun!

Fun because the arguments sound like great sex...

 

[Thursday]

It has happened to me - and yes
as bougal and another ENTJ female here stated - we understand each other

 

[the state i am in]

not personally a fan, te and se as extroverted functions, i don't really enjoy either. generally do not express/know feelings well at all. i always choose others with more compatible/complimentary functions instead.

 

[ReadingRainbows]

i've been trying to say this all along! I LOVE ENTJS I LOOOOOOOOVE THEM!!!

 

[chegra]

Wow entj has a fan base nice.

I dont know how, by changing the t in entj to an f to become enfj takes us from the most hated type to the most loved type.

And I think they are have some misinformation about entj, according to research we have the highest emotional intelligence:
Emotional Intelligence and Personality Type

 

[chegra]

Why strong J? That sounds like a lot of J going around, which only works well when you both have the same goal in mind. My J is fairly strong and a Te or Fe-dom and I not agreeing on something...let's just say sparks will fly.

ENTJ tend to love love the arguing. So it might be bad for infj but on the entj side of things we are making huge advancement in the relationship.

One less decision to make once we get that out of the way.

 

[nanook]

can i see pictures?
not necessarily in bed...

 

[chegra]

Use your intuition to picture it.

 

[nanook]

no, i would like to know what you are even talking about.
not how i would picture it. because i did that, and i come to different results. thats a situation where discussion gets rather pointless and a picture may say more than thousand words

 

[BlackCat]

Wow entj has a fan base nice.

Add me to that fanbase.

I dont know how, by changing the t in entj to an f to become enfj takes us from the most hated type to the most loved type.

Not true.

I could definitely see INFJ-ENTJ working out.

 

[cascadeco]

I think ENTJ-INFJ could work out.

As always, with these things, it really depends on what both people are wanting out of the relationship, and the needs/desires of both parties. Does all of it line up? If so, it could work well.

I know a couple of ENTJ's in real life - one I know pretty well, another not as well. I like them quite a lot; don't have any issues, really, and have always really really admired the one. She's..awesome! I know a third enTJ (very strong on the T and J, the other two functions aren't that prominent), and we've been good friends for several years. I don't have a problem with the strong T, but the strong J can cause head-bumping. It's not a major deal, just kinda annoying at times (as I think her 'J' is stronger than mine, and it's quite evident/comical/annoying in certain situations).

I don't think I've been in a relationship with an ENTJ though. I may have dated one a long while ago, and it was fun, but it wasn't anything longterm.

 

[chegra]

no, i would like to know what you are even talking about.
not how i would picture it. because i did that, and i come to different results. thats a situation where discussion gets rather pointless and a picture may say more than thousand words

You are sounding like a senate.

 

[chegra]

I think ENTJ-INFJ could work out.

As always, with these things, it really depends on what both people are wanting out of the relationship, and the needs/desires of both parties. Does all of it line up? If so, it could work well.

I know a couple of ENTJ's in real life - one I know pretty well, another not as well. I like them quite a lot; don't have any issues, really, and have always really really admired the one. She's..awesome! I know a third enTJ (very strong on the T and J, the other two functions aren't that prominent), and we've been good friends for several years. I don't have a problem with the strong T, but the strong J can cause head-bumping. It's not a major deal, just kinda annoying at times (as I think her 'J' is stronger than mine, and it's quite evident/comical/annoying in certain situations).

I don't think I've been in a relationship with an ENTJ though. I may have dated one a long while ago, and it was fun, but it wasn't anything longterm.

I dont think strong J, wouldnt cause as much trouble as a J and a P

 

[nanook]

You are sounding like a senate.

so now i am the entj

 

[Venom]

ive had flings with INFJs...


...

from what ive found, the Te/Fe clash is not the problem...usually its the enneagram difference. (like if im an 8 and they're a 4w3...the w3 ruins it)

 

[SpottingTrains]

I have a couple real life friends who are ENTJs and they are have been in relationships with IF's and they have all ended poorly. I know this is not really solid evidence or anything but each of them, when I talked to them separately, told me that the lack of logic when they talking about 'anything' drove them slowly insane. I can't see any relationship involving a ENTJ lasting that is not based on logical grounds.

 

[Silent Stars]

I'm quite logical, actually.

 

[Kangirl]

I think this could work - well, even.