I am a female INFJ in love with a male ENTJ. We have been staying together for 7 years, now. I think it needs hard work at first (and hard quarrels), but it is absolutely worth it. We have really grown up together.
Anyway i think it depends on the specific person...my father too is an ENTJ and i cannot bear him most of the times! :steam:
I've only met one INFJ IRL, and one ENFJ IRL. I enjoy the company of both of them. But I must say, the INFJ stole a bigger chunk of my heart due to her incredibly sweet, understanding and gentile nature. Plus, she laughed at ALL my jokes! I got the sense that the ENFJ thought he knew everything there's to know about people, feelings and mannerism, which put me off.