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    Quote Originally Posted by MrME View Post
    Have any of your friends told him -- directly and very bluntly -- that his inability to move on is driving a wedge into your friendship?
    No, I don't believe they have. I'm supposed to pretend I don't know...I don't think he knows that i know, for the matter. Or if he does, then...I don't know.

    And he has been pretty gloomy lately. The last time I spoke with him, sometimes last week, he was complaining about how friends come and go and that it's useless to invest in them.

    Would tomorrow not be a good time to confront him? Hmmm...

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    Quote Originally Posted by Immaculate Cloud View Post
    Hmm, speaking from the point of view of an INFJ - confronting would be nice, as in, putting the final nail in the coffin. He'll be miserable for a time but INFJ's like closure, so, he'll move on eventually but for you, you'll also be able to look back and say, 'that was the thing that finally did it'.

    Now, if HE himself is already taking steps to distance himself even before you go confront, that is good, matters have been taken out of your hand. The INFJ will feel like he is reclaiming his life and feelings back. You'll still have a special place - as in, great parenthesis in his life - but he has to move on and therefore he is taking steps on his own.

    Again that is my point of view - an INFJ who has had to wean out of some form of limerence by sitting down, pushing emotions aside and looking at the cold hard FACTS.
    This thread smells of destruction. Sorry but it had to be said.
    "..And the eight and final rule: If this is your first time at Fight Club, you have to fight."
    'Men are meant to be with women. The rest is perversion and mental illness.'

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    Quote Originally Posted by Avatar7 View Post
    This thread smells of destruction. Sorry but it had to be said.
    Whoever smelt it, dealt it?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Zrenn View Post
    Whoever smelt it, dealt it?
    Need I say more..
    "..And the eight and final rule: If this is your first time at Fight Club, you have to fight."
    'Men are meant to be with women. The rest is perversion and mental illness.'

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    Quote Originally Posted by Avatar7 View Post
    Need I say more..
    Yes. Hehehe. Sorry but I don't get it...:confused:

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    Quote Originally Posted by Zrenn View Post
    Yes. Hehehe. Sorry but I don't get it...:confused:
    I really would just roll with it..
    "..And the eight and final rule: If this is your first time at Fight Club, you have to fight."
    'Men are meant to be with women. The rest is perversion and mental illness.'

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    Quote Originally Posted by Avatar7 View Post
    I really would just roll with it..
    Fine...fine...*mutters*

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    Quote Originally Posted by Zrenn View Post
    Fine...fine...*mutters*
    You gave up too early. You were tricked. Because your opponent had an air of confidence, you doubted yourself, and your opponent was able to take advantage of the opening to fool you into surrendering.
    "All humour has a foundation of truth."
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    Quote Originally Posted by Costrin View Post
    You gave up too early. You were tricked. Because your opponent had an air of confidence, you doubted yourself, and your opponent was able to take advantage of the opening to fool you into surrendering.
    NOOOOOOOOOOOOooooooooooo!!!! Say it ain't sooo!!!

    i see.

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