Thank you for pointing this out, 100% correct.I hear you loud and clear. Personally, I know you just throw those statements in for your own personal amusement, to cause confusion and undermine confidence.
Here's the reality, my first post was both heart felt, meant to be constructive, asking for clarification and also had the normal ENTP undertones to it.
Had this been an NT dom thread this would have been taken with a grain of salt. And the motivation behind my post wouldn't have been missed. For whatever reason, this wasn't the case and I notice some of the INFPs involved haven't been on the forums long so maybe they just don't get the ENTP way so I was taken more serious.
All the same, the INFPs I've know have been healthy people. The issues have been based on not seeing the world the same way, something I can respect. They have all been loving, caring, kind people and very gentle spirits if you will. The issues I've had comes up in much the same manner this thread has spun out of control. Maybe it's me playing too rough, maybe it's them taking things too personal. What I know is conflict resolution has never gone well with them. While I may not be attacking emotionally the INFPs I have known when pushed too hard go into their shell and never come back out.
So I'm disappointed in myself for not picking up on what was happening before in spun out of control and if I could do it over again I would have been more clear in my meanings and when questioned I wouldn't have perpetuated the issue assuming anything, normally when taken wrong another ENTP can interpret or clarify the meaning.