Okay, first off HELLO im new here hehe.
anyway. so, as an ENFP, (as most of you can identify with) i ususally get along with EVERYONE.... even if someone isn't like, my bestest friend ever, i can usually deal with them and find the best within them! but there's this one person.... i can't figure out what exactly it is... she just drives me UP THE WALL. and idk why! (and, as most of you will agree with, i HATE not knowing why i'm feeling a certain way! i always have to know why i feel what i feel. which is why this bothers me.)
k so she just moved here in january, and like the true ENFP i am, i was overjoyed to meet a new girl and me and my friends took her under our wing and were super sweet to her. she seemed like she fit perfectly. she was fun and cute and bubbly and hilarious, etc. and we hit it off INSTANTLY. then like a few weeks later we found out she was spreading some crap bout us and stuff, and then she became best friends with my ex... some weird stuff like that lol. and thru the whole thing she acts like she's still our bff and stuff. more weird stuff like that happened and she is kind of an attention seeker and feeds off drama... so no surprise there... but anyways. okay stuff like this has always happens in the past and i'm usually able to get over it like THAT and still be able to be friends with the person.... so what is it about this girl that i truly can't stand her? it's so unusual for me! :confused:
it either has somthin to do with...
-the fact that we were so sweet to her and she flipped around and backstabbed (enfps don't do well with criticism and "character attacks")
-the fact she's so fake
-the fact she's annoying
-the fact that she is bff with my ex
-the fact that i trusted her with very personal secrets that are now undoubtedly being spread to people i really don't want them to.... lol....
i was wondering, is there a certain type that just really does not get along with ENFP's? i mean, is it somthin with her personality that just rubs me the wrong way? or is it one of my theories? has anyone ever felt this way before?
any commentary whatsoever would be appreciated