Noigmn gave some good advice there.
This is very true and has, personally, accounted for many misunderstandings. We are generally well-liked people, so playing too hard to get will probably compute as "it's not a natural connection, she's probably not interested in me at all" inside the ENFPs head. Like others said, don't be afraid to bug us, because quite frankly, we love the attention.Originally Posted by Cze Cze
INFJs girls are right up our alley, so you're in luck. You guys can be pretty closed-off, so some sort of positive feedback is much appreciated. Feeling like "the weird chick is opening up" to us will make our day. Deep conversations are definitely the key. Obviously silliness is intrinsic to ENFP nature, but what's important is that you'll indulge in the other stuff as well - stuff that is not so down-to-earth that we can talk about it with many people.
I realize this is not telling you how to actively pursue a male ENFP, but then again that would be an answer far beyond my intellectual capabilities, if you catch my drift :P