Just like politics...if one side feels so strong about something, and spews hate toward the other party, it doesn't make the other party wrong necessarily. It just means they are angry at the other party.
Who knows...the perpetrator may know their accusation is complete nonsense...say an ESTP said it, I don't know...but their intention may just be to see if you take it personally..In other words, what they accuse you of may be of little importance to them..They could have just as easily chosen or made up some other thing to say to you..I don't know..but do you get what I'm saying?
See what I'm saying?
I would ignore them. (and tell yourself, formally, the truth).