I never blame the people around me. I am at fault for EVERYTHING I do.
I do like to do a lot of things, but it is not always for other people. I have actually learned to NOT do that these last couple of years. I use to do that. "I picked up for you honey!" and what-not and then he would be like "No, you picked up because you HAD to pick up...not for me, it was needed to be done" so, not to gloat or anything...but my husband is my personality type soul mate so he's taught me a LOT
you know...I think what's happened in this thread is good for discussion wise. but, it's kind of two totally different topics. I mean, one part of it is a kid dealing with his parent and all I was trying to ask is: Is it the ENFP that is making me want to do everything? not really the cause and effect of how an ENFP goes about it with other folks. so sorry BlackCat but you really did derail the thread. but, I'm open for a bunch of discussions...I just couldn't relate cuz I am not a parent.