Now that I think about it I see why she drives her twin sister insane. Her twin is an INFP and she basically gets the same treatment that I do, only it's been their entire lives (52 years I believe). I have always been able to totally sympathize with my aunt about my mom. It's funny, my mom ALWAYS asks my aunt to help her with something and my mom basically gets the same response from my aunt as she does me. She says "You guys are ASSHOLES I don't get why you hate me." Me and my aunt go when that gets said.
So now since I think my mom is an ENFJ this thread is officially TOTALLY derailed.