I actually feel love for many people. I make connections ("alliances" I once heard it called it a SF book) with many folks around me and I love them. Once they commit to the mission, or seem to fall for the flutterby, they become part of my bizarre cosmic whole and I take care of them and they are mine.
However I have never tried the "falling in love" thing. I was with an ISTP. Emotions are silly.
For an ENFP what is it like to walk along that cliff and then jump off? How do you ever recover when things end?
I dont think I will try myself as I have the Fi packaged very nicely on a shelf, however I would like to have a better understanding of how this plays out.