Ok so I've been pondering over the description of the INFP personality (as I seem to so often do) and I picked a couple of points that Im wondering about.
First off, When it comes to comforting other people do you find yourself capable of just jumping out of your shell and helping the first person who needs emotional help in reach? In my case, I'm perfectly willing, and happy to help somebody in need, but its typically restricted to family and close friends, I have a harder time finding the emotional connection with those I hardly know. But those that I do, I'd like to think of myself as a strong emotional support.
And my second question, I'm quite a loyal person, this is something I've learned about myself more in the past couple years or so and when I consider somebody a close friend I don't want to let go of them. But I often times don't see this reflected from people that I start to become attached to. I'm thinking it is because Im wanting people to commit on the level that I, but maybe its more difficult for others? I'm wondering if any of you have also experienced this.
This is not a feel sorry thread! (I hope it doesnt read like it) what do you guys think?