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    Default INFJ - how extroverted ?

    I'm having a hard time typing this person as ENFJ or INFJ. The ENFJs I know are more openly emotional and bubbly.

    This person if very friendly but at the same time reserved. Also a bit "weird" but in a cute way.

    She likes to talk to everyone, party, etc but her demeanor does not remind me of a full out ENFJ.

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    How many nights a week does she go out, or how many times a week does she interact with other people? Because some INFJs do a really good extravert imitation -- but only for a few hours at a time, and usually not every single day.

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    Quote Originally Posted by SUPER View Post
    I'm having a hard time typing this person as ENFJ or INFJ. The ENFJs I know are more openly emotional and bubbly.

    This person if very friendly but at the same time reserved. Also a bit "weird" but in a cute way.

    She likes to talk to everyone, party, etc but her demeanor does not remind me of a full out ENFJ.
    This definitely sounds like an INFJ.

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    I'd say INFJ.
    We can be selectively outgoing under certain circumstances.
    Also not accounting for % of E or I...
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    Well, I guess the first thing to ask is "how big was the party"? Was it a small intimate gathering of up to 10 or so...Or was it more of the college "phrat" Party variety? Remember, Us Infj's are pretty good at "shape-shifting"; basically, This means we can inmitate several different types of personas..

    Also, Have you had a chance to see this person's demeaner one on one or once they are stressed? Its important to observe the person, in many different life situations as you can; so you can get a more accurate profile of that person..
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    ...Sounds like me!

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    Based only on what you've told us so far, I would venture to guess you have an INFJ on your hands.
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    I'd say INFJ as well. Sort of reminds me of the things I do [except I don't think my 'weird' is cute, I think it's just...plain..weird lol].

    It isn't hard to be friendly and 'bubbly' with people, but it does depend on who the person is and it definitely can't be done [for me] for more than a few hours on a daily basis. It wears me out and makes me grumpy.

    I've heard, like somebody has mentioned already, that INFJs can 'shift' into other types...sort of like a chameleon, based on the situation presented to them.
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    I've heard, like somebody has mentioned already, that INFJs can 'shift' into other types...sort of like a chameleon, based on the situation presented to them.


    And I got to know one of my schoolmates is an INFJ and I would've never guessed that! She seems way more E (enfj), but actually she is very introverted, spends a lot of time alone, but when with company, she's outgoing.

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    when conversation is rolling, infjs loooooove to talk.

    i have a job where i have to be quite extroverted and i usually go out 3-4 times per week, but i only find it satisfying like half the time. and if i don't drink enough, i get REALLY picky who's around me. it's really obvious every now and then that i'm just not feeling it, and i can't fake it at all or pretend to be interested, and sooner or later i start to get annoyed at others for being nothing but intrusive. i am fortunate that the people around me just accept me as moody or sometimes subdued and do not take offense.

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