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    Hmm... I wouldn't necessarily say that the INFJs I knew had a martyr complex, although the one unhealthy trait that I did find in the both were the fact that once they made their mind up about something, it was nearly impossible to convince them otherwise.. but that was them. I don't know about other INFJs, and I think any other type can be just as bullheaded, depending on how much importance we place on certain issues.

    What I learned in how to deal with INFJs is, if ya really love them, let them go. If they need their space, give it to them. Maybe, they're too hurt to really have to deal with certain things that may be deeply bothering them. So to try to pry it out of them is like squirting lime on an open wound. Let it be..

    Besides, once someone holds strongly onto their own beliefs, there's nothing we can do to really change that. I believe, peoples' attitudes/beliefs change only if they want to. Only time will tell. So set them free. If they come back, then good. If not, then just let them go & wish them well, because that's what people who care do- wish the other person all the best, much love & respect, regardless of what happens. Hope this helps!

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    ALL OF THEM!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Babylon Candle View Post
    ALL OF THEM!
    Okay, now you're not even making sense.

    Shoe fly!
    "The purpose of life is to be defeated by greater and greater things." - Rainer Maria Rilke

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    Holy crap, I suddenly feel like I'm in the NT forum ... !!

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    Quote Originally Posted by iwakar View Post
    Okay, now you're not even making sense.

    Shoe fly!
    He knows he secretly loves us but is just afraid to admit it.

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    Quote Originally Posted by cascademn View Post
    Those are the only two that I really relate to from the list, when stressed. An example - when stressed I can become pretty anal about stuff like the apartment not being up to standard in cleanliness, and that stuff will really bother me.

    But as for the other stuff - decisions, excess eating/drinking/exercise...eh, not so much. Maybe it's because when stressed I'm aware that I'm stressed, so I do a lot of preemptive things to avoid doing anything stupid -- for example, I'll isolate/withdraw so I don't have to deal with people, because I know I'm highly critical at the moment. I don't trust my own judgment/perceptions when I'm stressed. And I won't overindulge in anything because I KNOW I'm stressed, and I know that's not the answer. That sort of thing.

    So for me...it would be general irritability, negativity, isolating myself, and being anal about things.
    That sums me up. Totally agree! I'm very similar that way, although, with added pig-headedness and cockiness, of my own specific style. I don't usually lash out, but become very internal and have a lot of negative self talk...beat myself up.

    Babylon Candle is kinda right though, I am kinda crazy....but only compared to you.....to me I make perfect sense.
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    Quote Originally Posted by paisley1 View Post

    Babylon Candle is right though, I am crazy.
    fixed.

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    I can tell you really like INFJ's, lots of fun hey?
    "Truth stands true, independent of whether you agree with it or not."

    "Don't let what matters least, matter most."

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    Perfectionist to a fault
    Highly critical
    Overly sensitive
    "woe is me" syndrome
    intense mental/emotional breakdowns
    Paranoia
    Pessimism
    bull-headedness-won't listen to reason
    Clingy
    extra moody
    a doormat-too submissive
    dogmatic
    delusional

    Of course, this is a description of an extremely unhealthy INFJ (theoretically)

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    Quote Originally Posted by IDK123 View Post
    Perfectionist to a fault
    Highly critical
    Overly sensitive
    "woe is me" syndrome
    intense mental/emotional breakdowns
    Paranoia
    Pessimism
    bull-headedness-won't listen to reason
    Clingy
    extra moody
    a doormat-too submissive
    dogmatic
    delusional

    Of course, this is a description of an extremely unhealthy INFJ (theoretically)
    Dun, dun, dun.

    It is correct. Every single one. You bastards are lucky to have many other redeeming qualities that trump all the bs above.

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