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    Quote Originally Posted by BerberElla View Post
    Hey, my life is pretty boring too, but what I let them in on is my mind, and that's a mindfield of excitement. You being my type, I know this must be true for you too.
    yes but what is often on my mind has very little to do with my actual life. I hate in class first day having to introduce yourself, I'm like uuuuh their's really not much I could say about myself.
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    i dunno what else to say so

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    Quote Originally Posted by prplchknz View Post
    yes but what is often on my mind has very little to do with my actual life. I hate in class first day having to introduce yourself, I'm like uuuuh their's really not much I could say about myself.
    Yeah, I know what you mean. I had to do all of that this term when I started college lol The only stuff about my life I can share is too off the wall for most of them to deal with, so I mostly just let them do the talking.
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    I'm like i gave you my name what else do you want? my thoughts on the universe?
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    Quote Originally Posted by prplchknz View Post
    I'm like i gave you my name what else do you want? my thoughts on the universe?
    Oh, well after a few classes, I am more than happy to share my thoughts on the universe with them, wether they asked me for them or not lol.
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    Quote Originally Posted by BerberElla View Post
    Oh, well after a few classes, I am more than happy to share my thoughts on the universe with them, wether they asked me for them or not lol.
    yes, but not the first class in the first five minutes
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    I am pretty much an open book..with certain though very few chapters yanked out and put in a vault. If certain topics come up, I'll change the subject and ask about the other person instead. If I feel I can trust them and it is a one on one conversation, they might get a glimpse, or more, depending on who they are.
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    I'm private until I know I can trust someone usually.
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    I don't see what right the writer of the OP has to expect an answer to a personal question of that nature from me! I don't even know them
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    Yeah, actually. There are certain self-perceptions that I refuse to share. To me, it's analogous to the whole "core of values" thing. I'm very open about myself up until a point, beyond which people are not allowed!

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    re kyuuei, Sytpg, FantailedWall, BerberElla, Amargith, and others

    Me too!

    I can be so personal, and yet in a way that's so direct that it's not personal at all.

    As a matter of retaining a sense of dignity in the face of things about me I'm not comfortable with, I can't just hide stuff away because it would be a liability. People would find out, and it feels yucky to keep a secret. So I bite the bullet and trade the liability of a part of me for the isolation of the whole of me, because between social bonds and self bonds, I'll take the self bonds, and preserve my sense of self-integrity. Of course, it doesn't really solve anything in reality because I'm still keeping a secret but am pretending not to. Instead of hiding the fact, I'm quite enthusiastically hiding the shame I feel about it. But it can't disappear. What I hide from myself only becomes projected, and I expect to be rejected or turned away for what I say, again, because of my OWN perceptions which I don't recognize. That's why it has to appear as such an either-or choice between self and others. It's very dishonest, and is hardly self-integrity, despite my efforts. It's a stoical-like movement, I think.
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