[MBTI General] Which type do you have a secret soft-spot for?

[Firebird 8118]

INTPs and INTJs, apparently

 

[LaBambi]

ISFJs backbone of humanity, adorable, easily my favorite type
but also SJs in general

 

[LucieCat]

INFPs and ISFPs. I joke to myself that I collect them. There's something about Fi doms that I just really like. Also, I think I might be a bit of an Fi magnet since so many of my friends seem to use it. Plus an unusually high percentage of the guys who have ever been seriously interested in me (and by that I mean almost all) have been Fi doms.

I also find NTs to be fascinating. I often love hearing them talk. But I tend to actually shy away from them and not be sure how to approach them.

 

[Icedream]

INTJs. I don't understand why people think they're cold.

 

[LittleCat]

INTJs. I don't understand why people think they're cold.

INTJs have a great, subtle sense of humor! Their Te is probably what comes off as cold, but it’s just a misunderstanding.
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The type I really like are the ENTPs with INTPs as a close second.

 

[Norexan]

Secretly I admire dom Fi.

 

[Abcdenfp]

isfp & esfp

 

[Tilt]

Evidently, emotionally stunted IXTJ types....stability + over reliance on logic + lack of emotional awareness seems to fill some sort of weird vortex of mine of anxious/avoidant attachment style and intellectualization defense mechanism.

Tortured soul IXFP types.

Flaky, image-conscious EXFJ types.

 

[Eftelya]

Platonically: ESFPs, ENFPs, ISFJs. XSFPs make really good friends. They just seem to get me on a deeper level. They are emotionally just as intense as me (some even more) and that makes me feel at ease with my own sensitivity. They are good listeners and deeply loyal people. I love them.




Romantically: ENFJ/ISTP/ISFP/ENTJ men.


I can't help but find myself gravitating toward them a lot. ISTP, ENTJ, and ISFP men have always been a weakness of mine. And IST/FP men. But ENFJ's are just one of a kind. Deep connections, intense conversations. I like the INFP/ENFJ dynamic a lot. Their personality is just so attractive. Intelligent, funny, passionate, insightful, caring, sociable─but not too much (even though introverts are more my thing)─sexy, and yet they are so secretive and complex. They can be pretty intimidating, too. Not to forget that, as an INFP girl, I sway more on the... submissive (meek, etc., you name it) side─not necessarily in a sexual way, though─and ENFJ men just naturally know how to bring out a more social, outgoing side of me. They (what would be a fitting word to use?) take lead? Take control? They know how to impress, persuade, and coax easily. I like that. I am shy, reserved, and private, so it's good to have someone make you feel comfortable and secure enough to open up and show them a vulnerable side of you. The idea of such someone seems just so intriguing. Have yet to meet a female example of this type, though. And ISFPs. But (speaking from personal experience) I've also had some ENFJs and ISTPs become rather possessive or obsessive though. Wasn't a good experience.

 

[j.c.t.]

I Surveyed Each Myers-Briggs Type To See Which Type They Were Most Attracted To – Here Are The Results | Thought Catalog

Interesting. It's a shame about the lack of ESFJ's and ESTP's within the MBTI community though, would be great to have more statistics on those. ENFP's seem to be popular.

 

[Hellena Handbasket]

INTJs.
They come off as cold and indifferent (and possibly assholish depending on the day) but most of them have a sweet playful side if you get close enough to them.

Estjs. I think they get way too much flack.

 

[Earl Grey]

ENFP and this angers me.
But not just any kind, there is a specific kind, and if I find them I am immediately more receptive to them.


Platonically, ISFJ, ISTJ.
They are very reliable and dependable.
I synergize the best with the ISXJs I do click with.

Oftentimes, both of us fill in the other's blind spots, so I get a strong sense of us watching each other's back.
It is as if I was blind, but now have a seeing-person to help cover me where I lack, and vice-versa.
It's potentially powerful, and something I don't really feel with other personality types, particularly the ISFJs.
ISJs are the best people to work with.

 

[SD45T-2]

Estjs. I think they get way too much flack.

 

[Hermit of the Forest]

INFPs, INTPs, ENTPs, and some XSXPs.

 

[Lady Lazarus]

INFP 4w5 social last.

 

[Luminous]

I don't think my soft spots are secret.

 

[1487610420]

 

[Luminous]

Fine, I'll clarify:

NPs​

 

[1487610420]

Fine, I'll clarify:

NPs​

 

[anticlimatic]

ISTJs