I've posted about my darling little ENFJ female student before -- she was bubbly, vivacious, and overflowing with Fe.
I've also had one male ENFJ student in my three years of teaching. Like the female ENFJ, he was quick-witted, charming, loquacious, and a natural leader (easily the top student in the class). He also cried easily like she did (it was first grade, so there was quite a bit of crying anyway, but the ENFJs definitely cried the most, lol). However, his Fe was not developed to nearly the degree that hers was. He had that potential there, but his feeling was largely turned inward and he would become very offended and outraged and perceived slights from his peers, yet in most cases he acted like a bully himself toward the other children. (Of course, this may have been due to upbringing rather than his being a male ENFJ.) I saw a lot of potential in him though and would try to model and talk to him about better civic behavior, and he seemed receptive, yet what they get at home and from neighborhood bullies often overpowers any headway we try to make. <sigh>
Anyway, I've read that that's sometimes a problem for (some) Fe males is that because society values Thinking in males, they turn their F inward, squandering some of their natural talent as nurturers.
