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    Seeing as how virtually nothing got accomplished on the first four pages...

    I've noticed that male ENFJs and female ENFJs are VERY different. What are some differences that you (anyone) has noticed? Males and females of the same type are very different from each other in some ways and very similar to each other in other ways. Speaking of ENFJs, what are some differences you people have noticed? I'm interested in something to read about this that makes sense so that I can apply it to the people that I know. I know that they're different from each other (male ENFJ vs female ENFJ) but I can't quite put it into words...
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    I think male ENFJs are more charming and female ENFJs are more tough.

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    Quote Originally Posted by hommefatal View Post
    I think male ENFJs are more charming and female ENFJs are more tough.
    Hmm, I was under the impression that it was the other way around.

    Maybe how "tough" one of them is depends on how psychologically healthy they are?
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    Quote Originally Posted by BlackCat View Post
    Hmm, I was under the impression that it was the other way around.

    Maybe how "tough" one of them is depends on how psychologically healthy they are?
    Maybe. I was thinking of tough more like 'bitchy' and men "shouldn't be" bitchy.

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    Quote Originally Posted by OrangeAppled View Post
    The ENFJ men usually aren't too good-looking , which must be natures way of checking their ego, because ENFJ charm + good looks seems like a recipe for a huge head on a man. Look at George Clooney...if he is an ENFJ and not an ENTJ, it shows you how arrogant a good looking one could become .
    George is an excellent example. I thought he was ENTJ too but Sis said, "You can't see yourself in that guy? Really?" and suddenly it all became so clear to me. George was an ENFJ. The men can behave in a pseudo-logical manner, strictly because they've been societally conditioned to control their emotional displays.

    The ENFJ guys I know definitely seem a bit caddish, but in a playful and good-natured way (if that makes sense). They also ultimately have huge hearts and don't want to harm anyone. All of them have this vision of finding the one girl for them, but in the meantime they surround themselves with female friends and flirt like mad. They all have a melancholy side, but counter it with their silly humor. They put on this charming, confident face but deep down have some big insecurities.
    Dead on, Orange.

    My ENFJ friend Taco, we tease him all the time about being a smooth operator. He scored major babes in high school, partied with the best of them, and managed SOMEHOW to become the only white Student Body president of an all-black school.

    He settled down with his LTR, an INFP, and in spite of his occasional outbursts, is a truly kind sweet guy, and painfully aware of wrongs and suffering heaped unfairly on others.
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    Quote Originally Posted by hommefatal View Post
    I think male ENFJs are more charming and female ENFJs are more tough.
    Both are charming, IMO, but the female ENFJ seems less worried about being vulnerable. I think that's where the "tough" part comes through for the guys. They have to maintain a more masculine face in society. They still come across as very warm, though....instead of "tough", I might say "nonchalant", although some are more practiced at it than others.
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    Nonchalant. A good word for it.
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    Whoo. I act more like a male ENFJ then.

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    Quote Originally Posted by IDK123 View Post
    Whoo. I act more like a male ENFJ then.
    Human behaviour varies a lot.

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