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    I do the staring thing all the time.... It doesn't mean anything from me.

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    ahahaha! I do that too sometimes... it's almost as if I'm picking someone for bits of data like ticks. Then again, I just stare. No reason really.
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    Have guys taken that as a cue to "hit on" you? I have had some REALLY weird guys try to strike up convos w/ me just because of it. lol One of them asked me about my first and last name.... creepy.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Pitseleh View Post
    Have guys taken that as a cue to "hit on" you? I have had some REALLY weird guys try to strike up convos w/ me just because of it. lol One of them asked me about my first and last name.... creepy.
    Oh yeah, it's been nuts. lol Fortunately, I began creating methods of covert staring, so I wasn't getting the "Heeeeeeey, baby!" *hand gun fingers* reaction. AHAHHA @ the A/S/L... that was smoooooth. I've been asked all manner of weird things, ranging from full name to unmentionables. I respond with "Wanna see my third nipple!?" which may or may not go well.

    My ENFP sister is way worse starer than I am. My own thoughts embarrass me so much I stop staring WAY before she ever does. lol
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    Quote Originally Posted by Domino View Post
    Oh yeah, it's been nuts. lol Fortunately, I began creating methods of covert staring, so I wasn't getting the "Heeeeeeey, baby!" *hand gun fingers* reaction. AHAHHA @ the A/S/L... that was smoooooth. I've been asked all manner of weird things, ranging from full name to unmentionables. I respond with "Wanna see my third nipple!?" which may or may not go well.

    My ENFP sister is way worse starer than I am. My own thoughts embarrass me so much I stop staring WAY before she ever does. lol
    LMAO. Would you mind sharing some of your covert staring tactics?

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    *Cough Cough* Ahem!!!

    Ladies, Please.

    Staring.. People are my favorite subject, I also like architecture and really, I might be looking past you.
    But mostly it's people.
    I don't normally focus on one person. My eyes dart around always shifting.. This cause people to sometimes think I am disinterested with them or anxious.
    Not at all. I can multi-task. But I understand this still upsets people sometimes.
    So I try my best.

    If I do stare, two things are happening (ore even just one). Attraction.
    But fear attracts too. If a person is fearful.. I can fixate.
    If someone brings out the fear in me.. I will also fixate.

    Or you are just really hot!

    Flirting?

    Well if I am openly flirtatious, it probably means I have no intention of it going anywhere for whatever reason or I know the other person has no intentions either.
    So it's just banter.

    Watch out for who I don't openly flirt with. The one I will walk by and not always acknowledge, or have trouble maintaining eye contact with, and that is usually the one I am most interested in. But unless they approach me.. forget it. This is very counter productive.

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    Behind a book, with your eyes peering over or from one side.

    Through your fingers.

    Through someone else's fingers.

    Billet yourself behind a kitten who will be too naive to tell on you.

    Sit so close to them and stare so blatantly that the object of the stares will automatically not see you or be aware of you.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Arclight View Post
    *Cough Cough* Ahem!!!

    Ladies, Please.

    Staring.. People are my favorite subject, I also like architecture and really, I might be looking past you.
    But mostly it's people.
    I don't normally focus on one person. My eyes dart around always shifting.. This cause people to sometimes think I am disinterested with them or anxious.
    Not at all. I can multi-task. But I understand this still upsets people sometimes.
    So I try my best.

    If I do stare, two things are happening (ore even just one). Attraction.
    But fear attracts too. If a person is fearful.. I can fixate.
    If someone brings out the fear in me.. I will also fixate.

    Or you are just really hot!

    Flirting?

    Well if I am openly flirtatious, it probably means I have no intention of it going anywhere for whatever reason or I know the other person has no intentions either.
    So it's just banter.

    Watch out for who I don't openly flirt with. The one I will walk by and not always acknowledge, or have trouble maintaining eye contact with, and that is usually the one I am most interested in. But unless they approach me.. forget it. This is very counter productive.
    You should have a stare-a-thon with and be scrutinized by another ENFJ (esp. the opposite sex).... it's the most awkward shit EVER.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Pitseleh View Post
    You should have a stare-a-thon with and be scrutinized by another ENFJ (esp. the opposite sex).... it's the most awkward shit EVER.
    Hmm well certain people can make me very nervous for no particular reason when they look at me.. Maybe It's a Female ENFJ?

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    Quote Originally Posted by curiousjane View Post
    A question for all you INFJ men out there: do you flirt openly with people?
    With an SO, sure... with someone new, no way; too invasive
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