The INTP as a "Romantic"
By Bo Ahlberg (your blog keeper)
I, as an INTP male, am a romantic but....
> I am romantic about people not Places
Cities are not romantic, beaches are not romantic, walks in the park are not romantic... but doing these things with the object of your affection is romantic.
> I am romantic about how I feel about someone not Situations or Occasions.
Valentine's Day is not a romantic occasion because everyday should be romantic.
> I am romantic about what I am doing with whom not where I'm doing it or when.
Be it shopping, shoveling dirt, or a night on the town... All are romantic if the one you love is with you.
> I am romantic spontaneously in spontaneous ways.
The romantic in me is very shy and only really comes out when it feels safe. If you treat it well and accept it for what it is, you would be rewarded with its frequent return. Treat it poorly, the deeper it hides, and the less frequent the visits. Ignore it or treat it badly and its feelings for you will die.