No generalized panic disorder, but I have struggled with anxiety-induced insomnia most of my life. After reading some INFJ profile descriptions I'm starting to think our anxiety comes with the territory -- we feel compelled to shoulder too many of the world's problems, and we feel guilty about the ones we don't shoulder. And I hate that nagging urge to always be accomplishing something / improving myself -- is that an xNxJ thing? I've been trying to learn to relax more, and am getting a little better at it, although even on vacation I sometimes have to force myself not to make to-do lists. My partner and I are thinking of having kids in a few years and honestly I've been toying with the idea of being a stay-at-home mom or only working part-time when/if that happens. I really want to slow down the pace of my life and enjoy the little things more.