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    lurking.... Wyst's Avatar
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    Default INFJs secretly....

    ..like to be pushed around/bullied (in a playful way).

    At least I do. I've especially noticed this works well with other NFs (primarily I/ENFPs).

    Here's the thrust behind this thought... I like to give affection in the same way and when someone I like/love (friend/family) won't return in kind it results in me taking it badly - because I only mess with/tease people that I care about. Others I'm fairly indifferent towards.

    Discuss... <?>

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    No, not this INFJ.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Lauren Ashley View Post
    No, not this INFJ.
    Hmm, maybe I'm just a masochistic INFJ.

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    if you are speaking of banter and conversation - yes
    its the Fe and teasing in a playful way thingy.<-----warning, i'm a professional
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    Quote Originally Posted by Thursday View Post
    if you are speaking of banter and conversation - yes
    Yep, that's what I'm talking about.
    Do you mean you're a pro at typology or you're a pro at teasing ^_^?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Wyst View Post
    ..like to be pushed around/bullied (in a playful way).

    At least I do. I've especially noticed this works well with other NFs (primarily I/ENFPs).

    Here's the thrust behind this thought... I like to give affection in the same way and when someone I like/love (friend/family) won't return in kind it results in me taking it badly - because I only mess with/tease people that I care about. Others I'm fairly indifferent towards.

    Discuss... <?>
    I love this, this is exactly how I show affection too. In playful banter, teasing and the like because I'm not really the most physically affectionate type.

    If I am teasing you, it's because I like you (yea, I should be in a schoolyard still lol).

    I have had people take it badly though , totally stopped talking to me, which made me feel so guilty.

    Oh to be an INTP and to do the banter thing, and not give a damn when it hurts them.
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    Hmmm, I'm more like Laruen Ashley. If I love someone (romantically), about the most they'll ever get from me is a anti-serious tease and then a smile & hug. People who enjoy showing affection via mocking/teasing typically annoy me lol (no offense though).

    With family and friends though, I'm a bit more inclined to show affection via teasing. It's no where near my main thing though.
    I don't have a picture up so...here's my youtube with me doing all sorts of crazy martial arts flips and kicks....=D.

    http://www.youtube.com/dashblades

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    Quote Originally Posted by Wyst View Post
    Yep, that's what I'm talking about.
    Do you mean you're a pro at typology or you're a pro at teasing ^_^?
    teasing and seduction and banter
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    Quote Originally Posted by Wyst View Post
    ..like to be pushed around/bullied (in a playful way).
    Within limits.

    An INFJ still wants to be taken seriously.
    Quote Originally Posted by Silently Honest View Post
    OMNi: Wisdom at the cost of Sanity.

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    I don't do the mocking/teasing stuff because I'm pretty straight forward about my feelings. Maybe when I was a kid, though.

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