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    Quote Originally Posted by sanveane View Post
    Agreed. I don't ever want to be mean to someone. I don't like a picky/points scoring/grandstanding style of banter or watching couples engage in that. It always seems a little passive/aggressive to coin that phrase.

    I do love it when a boyfriend 'zings me good' about something. It's a delicate art. I had one boyfriend who was really good at it. Always flying close to the line but never over. He was not otherwise verbally affectionate but that made me feel like he 'got' me. It was a lot of fun. I was always wondering what he would come up with next, lol!
    It's great to have someone to challenge you, sharpen you - personally, it actually motivates me to come up with something hilarious and clever to use to get him back. I equate it to two puppies pulling on each other's ears. It's supposed to be funny.

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    ^hehe, yes!

    Awww... Great analogy! (Perfect!) To me that's exactly what it should feel like...

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    It's got to be very light and obviously affectionate. It still makes me on edge. I like to joke around and I like witty conversation, I just shy away if it gets personal. A little goes a long way.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Wyst View Post
    ..like to be pushed around/bullied (in a playful way).

    At least I do. I've especially noticed this works well with other NFs (primarily I/ENFPs). Although recent I've noticed some ENTPs that can do the same.

    Here's the thrust behind this thought... I like to give affection in the same way and when someone I like/love (friend/family) won't return in kind it results in me taking it badly - because I only mess with/tease people that I care about. Others I'm fairly indifferent towards.

    Discuss... <?>
    In light of some recent exchanges with other NFs it's gotten me wondering if I'm the only one again.

    It also makes me wonder if I'm mildly masochistic in relationships. Not the S&M kind, mind you

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    Quote Originally Posted by Wyst View Post
    In light of some recent exchanges with other NFs it's gotten me wondering if I'm the only one again.

    It also makes me wonder if I'm mildly masochistic in relationships. Not the S&M kind, mind you
    First, explain what you mean by masochism.
    "Create like a god, command like a king, work like a slave."

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    Quote Originally Posted by Wyst View Post
    ..like to be pushed around/bullied (in a playful way).
    Quote Originally Posted by Synarch View Post
    First, explain what you mean by masochism.
    Did you read the beginning half of my post or did you just focus on MASOCHISM??

    A good example would be the ENFP vs. ENTP thread.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Wyst View Post
    Did you read the beginning half of my post or did you just focus on MASOCHISM??

    A good example would be the ENFP vs. ENTP thread.
    Why do you like to be bullied? I want to understand before I can help you.
    "Create like a god, command like a king, work like a slave."

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    Like I've always say, I like to toy with my prey. I do like to be a bit of the aggressor, which I guess is pretty apparent.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Synarch View Post
    Why do you like to be bullied? I want to understand before I can help you.
    lol.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Synarch View Post
    Why do you like to be bullied? I want to understand before I can help you.
    Seriously? Did you also not read the middle part too??

    Quote Originally Posted by Wyst View Post
    ..like to be pushed around/bullied (in a playful way).

    At least I do. I've especially noticed this works well with other NFs (primarily I/ENFPs).

    Here's the thrust behind this thought... I like to give affection in the same way and when someone I like/love (friend/family) won't return in kind it results in me taking it badly - because I only mess with/tease people that I care about. Others I'm fairly indifferent towards.

    Discuss... <?>
    Understand now? lol

    Quote Originally Posted by jenocyde View Post
    Like I've always say, I like to toy with my prey. I do like to be a bit of the aggressor, which I guess is pretty apparent.
    Understatemeeeeeennnt

    See, Jeno is a prime example of someone I like to argue/banter with. Even though she says hurtful, mean things to me all the time and leaves insulting rep comments every single day, I know it's really because she loves me.

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