noigmn: I admire your wisdom
Although. An INFJ having, or even accepting, the same attitude an ENFP has about relationship is a nasty site. An ENFP guy can play pimp and can get away with it fairly good without getting girls into to much sorrow, their Fi makes intelligent moves to lower the other pain.
An INFJ guy who act like a pimp would rather leave you when you most need them because the pimping attitude makes the INFJ's not following any rules, no meaning to be nice because lack of structure (right or wrong).
Now. An ENFP man (or women) who would act more like a caring, strongly dependent person would problably have no clue of the capability of what the other person can give and will therefor have unreasonable demands and depends to much on the other person while the INFJ act pretty fair and will be able to understand that when someone leaves you, it was probably never ment to be and if the same person comes back because they found something in you that they didnt think existed you will understand that