Why NFs care about others peoples feelings so much?
Well, the emotional energy of others affects me a lot so if they feel stressed, I start to feel stressed...
To me it looks like that NFs can care so much about other peoples feelings that this skill can block their ability to operate normally during the day.
Uh... I don't know
Is this because you are afraid of creating enemies or when you hurt someone, you hate yourself for the rest of the day.
I know it is both but I am interested in ratio.
uhhh... not exactly, I just don't like to hurt other people and i feel guilty when I do
Do you think that all people are equally soft at core?
no but you never know how sensititive people are going to be so I test the waters before I joke around or say something controversial.
It can happen that NFs(usually ENFPs) will be so friendly that he/she will say something awkward or hurtful (by their standards) and they will apologize over and over again and in the end they will feel bad about it.
Why so defensive attitude? Well, i don't like to offend people and some people have "softer cores" than others so I want to ward off any potential offense
When it comes to talking with me they can sometimes end up somewhat disturbed because they realise that they didn't even scratch the surface.
What can make them even more uncomfortable. (I presume)
what? a bit vague.
Also NFs say that they can feel other peoples feeling as their own.
I am interested in which way does this really efect you.
yes, most definitely, if someone gets angry about something , I start to tense up because of the negative energy.