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    Question ENFP body language

    I need help from you ENFP guys.

    The question is: do you really know how you feel?

    The ENFP I've known for 7 years told me he was attracted to me
    but he knew his lifestyle is too different from mine and he was not
    in the head space for a relationship. We are not living in the
    same city now and it seems that he does bot intend to see me again.

    However, other signs (body language, tones...) told me that he wanted to
    take care of me...

    My intuition tells me to wait until he sort out his feelings, but I
    wonder if it is my own INFJ stubbornness. :confused:

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    He might have very fond feelings for you, and if you invoke his 'protective' vibe that will only make him care more for you, however I'd say he's scared of hurting you coz he hasn't got it all together yet (I'm female though, so..guys, I'm looking at you to see if it does work like this).


    Best you can do, I think, is spend time with him. If you want him, stay on his mind by staying in touch, but also give him the room to sort out what he needs to sort out. That way you minimize the chances of both of you getting hurt. Chatting, emails, sms, getting together as 'friends'. Give it time to blossom
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    the advise above is excellent, give him the space to think but keep yourself in his mind
    "Honest differences are often a healthy sign of progress. "

    "You must not lose faith in humanity. Humanity is an ocean; if a few drops of the ocean are dirty, the ocean does not become dirty."

    "An eye for an eye makes the whole world blind."

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    Quote Originally Posted by dearie.b View Post
    I need help from you ENFP guys.

    The question is: do you really know how you feel?

    The ENFP I've known for 7 years told me he was attracted to me
    but he knew his lifestyle is too different from mine and he was not
    in the head space for a relationship. We are not living in the
    same city now and it seems that he does bot intend to see me again.

    However, other signs (body language, tones...) told me that he wanted to
    take care of me...

    My intuition tells me to wait until he sort out his feelings, but I
    wonder if it is my own INFJ stubbornness. :confused:
    Insufficient details provided here in order for me to give you any kind of potentially helpful advice.

    In other words, more please.
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    I have a sum totla of 3 emotional states.

    -Happy
    -Meh
    -Hungry

    I always know which is which.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Nillerz View Post
    I have a sum totla of 3 emotional states.

    -Happy
    -Meh
    -Hungry

    I always know which is which.
    95% of the time im just hungry lol
    "Honest differences are often a healthy sign of progress. "

    "You must not lose faith in humanity. Humanity is an ocean; if a few drops of the ocean are dirty, the ocean does not become dirty."

    "An eye for an eye makes the whole world blind."

    Mahatma Gandhi

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    ^^ me too...i'm kinda thirsty a lot too
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    -Jim Morrison

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    I'm currently meh. :|

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    ^^ i'm a lil whooo!! haha
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    Dump him.
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    Gosh, the world looks so small from up here on my high horse of menstruation.

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