Ah, sweet duality...
Some things get to be so clear sometimes. See, I know an ENTJ woman, lived with her for a while, and I know how she's living now. And I also recently got to know an INFP. It's just so freaking obvious what those two could do for each other. I know how she lives and acts; and I saw what he does with his eyes. It'd be an instant thing. If she would get over choosing lovers for their upward-mobility and he would... dunno, don't know him well enough... maybe he just has to be on time.
It's almost a pity they live in different cities.
Actually, what I saw with the INFP wasn't just the eye thing. There's something rugged and fierce going on inside INFPs. Total match for the overwhelming force of an ENTJ. Something, and this is rare, something she'd be awed by if she saw it. Not cowed, but awed, and admiring and seeking.
In that austere, fierce, would you believe "passionate", XNTJ way, it's beautiful.