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[ENFP] What? Why?

Rogue

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How come everyone I talk to is fun for awhile..then they suddenly get "to busy" to talk to me...but not otherforum friends.:huh:

Surely I can't be that obnoxious or psycho, maybe its my sarcastic humor...Maybe Im just annoying. Maybe Im just ENFP....:shock:
 

pippi

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C'mon... what kinda talk is that?

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Maybe you're both!

Exactly! Don't sell yourself short. :D

People come to bulletin boards/forums because they can pop in and out when they feel like it and they don't have to actually even be on at the same time to interact with someone. Half the people on here seem to be at work or school so maybe they really are busy.
 

disregard

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How come everyone I talk to is fun for awhile..then they suddenly get "to busy" to talk to me...but not otherforum friends.:huh:

Surely I can't be that obnoxious or psycho, maybe its my sarcastic humor...Maybe Im just annoying. Maybe Im just ENFP....:shock:

Socialisation is a survival tool. Once someone "acquires" you, they make use of their resources and put them toward acquiring someone else.
 

Rogue

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Socialisation is a survival tool. Once someone "acquires" you, they make use of their resources and put them toward acquiring someone else.

interesting. never thought of it like that....
 

disregard

mrs
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Don't start. I was in a cynical mood. Flawed train of thought.
 

disregard

mrs
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lol

Yeah. But look on the bright side. It's probably just because they're busy and haven't thought about you.

Ego aside, it's not a huge deal. How often you're thought about doesn't necessarily equal your value.
 

Simplexity

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lol

Yeah. But look on the bright side. It's probably just because they're busy and haven't thought about you.

Ego aside, it's not a huge deal. How often you're thought about doesn't necessarily equal your value.

It doesn't?

I wish I had the benefit of receiving reassurance in that regard from some people. :(
 

disregard

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Arrah

Reassurance is overrated. It can sometimes come from those talented at it and mean very little.
 

Rogue

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It doesn't?

I wish I had the benefit of receiving reassurance in that regard from some people. :(

I'm with Aimahn on this one...but I wish I was more like Disregard....I am always sucked into peoples lies and then my feelings get hurt when I find out the truth.

I think I am growing more cynical and bitter by the day. :shock:
 
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