The following things are part of a question that somewhat constantly bugged me for the last few months. I opened a lot of threads about it and I constantly asked within threads for it. But I really never got an answer.
My girlfriend is a eneagram six and therefore, high morale is to be expected. I myself do not have a hint, what this is supposed to mean. So, now we have the obvious stated.
Now lets face facts: I lack morale that's true, I think that answering your phone while you perform cuni lingus on a random girl is totally awesome. But on the other hand, I love. And when I do love, I go to great lengths for it. To insanely great lengths.
Now the question is, what defines the morale NT ? One thing is sure, the answer is not morale.
I came to think now about this topic, for like aeons of time. It's like you have the facts there but you dont know why they are. Something like the double slit experiment. When the electron does behave like a wave and does behave like a solid. It just seems to depend on how you look at it, but in the end you know that cant be the truth. An observer does not change things, because like it is with atoms, it is with every human. Everybody has got his own agenda and an observer wont change this. So, how does it come that NT do have morale, even NF think otherwise ?!
I wont lie to you. My girlfriend thinks I am the world's greatest fartass there is. She trusts me like 1 centimeter what is *wild guess here* less than an inch. I thought when I first met her that if I make the littlest of mistake, she will send me to hell.
But I was wrong. I did a hundred of mistakes. No big mistakes, like cheating on her, but little ones, her morale cant justify. But I am still not in hell.
That means her morale exists but there is something profound to it her morale or she herself can not grasp.
May it be for the sake of definition, we call it love. And what is that love thing. Why does it make a rational guy, morally.
I have came to think and I think I said that already (by now you probably figured I dont have an answer).
I have came to think that I think NT's do tick different. That means they are not green apples, they are red apples. That means the problem is a fundamental flaw that comes with the making.
It would be absolutely logical to say, "why should I be not morale to my girlfriend, if I do love her ?", but that would not explain love. And I think, there is something inherent within the NT nature, I havent grasped myself fully yet. Something unique. Something that is capable of truly loving.
And I think my girlfriend has figured that out.
I just can say, I envy her for that.