I've been thinking about people that I have hard time to level with. It seems to come down to me not being able to see their essence. To not have a feeling of what they are about. I am guessing this is an NF type of communication problem. So, tell me...
1) What is the essence?
Soul? Pattern of body language? Pattern of behavior?
2) How it could be missing?
It isn't there? It is inconsistent? I don't see the pattern?
3) How can you find it if it isn't there?
Please, don't keep your thoughts any way limited to the questions...