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    The Black Knight Domino's Avatar
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    *fainting with laughter*
    eNFJ 4w3 sx/so 468 tritype
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    EII-Fi subtype, Ethical/Empath, Delta/Beta
    RLUEI, Choleric/Melancholic
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    Dramatic>Sensitive>Serious

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    Quote Originally Posted by PinkPiranha View Post
    *fainting with laughter*
    *wonders if Pink is thinking how many people she's confirmed her dislike of later in this same, odd ENFJ manner*

    “Oh, we're always alright. You remember that. We happen to other people.” -Terry Pratchett

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    Quote Originally Posted by whatever View Post
    *wonders if Pink is thinking how many people she's confirmed her dislike of later in this same, odd ENFJ manner*

    If I answered that, my brain would start screaming and you will have me for company behind that wall, missy.
    eNFJ 4w3 sx/so 468 tritype
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    RLUEI, Choleric/Melancholic
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    Dramatic>Sensitive>Serious

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    behind the wall you say... with me....


    ANSWER IT, LADY!
    “Oh, we're always alright. You remember that. We happen to other people.” -Terry Pratchett

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    As an INFP, I've had similar problems with getting involved with people who needed me in some way. I finally figured out that I felt comfortable in such a situation. If the person NEEDED me, then I didn't have to worry that they would leave me. The trouble is that it gets old being needed, and you eventually want to move on.
    The key for me has been to find activities in which I can engage in my desire to help people and to explore relationships--and for me that activity is theater and acting. I get to do my thing, but it isn't PERSONAL to me. All the issues are universal; every human being goes through them. I can help other people by letting them see me go through a character's pains, sorrows, desires, frustrations, etc. AND I help myself by being to hang out with other people who are also exploring those issues and deeply exploring them myself. It's very cathartic and exciting.
    "All that you've loved is all you own." Tom Waits

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    You'll talk to anyone about anything, and I mean anyone!

    You cry during sappy commercials.

    You want to save the world.

    You have lists for lists.

    You know if someone moved your widget even a 1/4 of a millimeter.

    You read people.

    You're a big sweetie.

    You know all the birthdays, send the cards, make the calls...

    You're in a service career.

    You obsess when someone doesn't like something about you, even if 99 other people do.

    You're intense.

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    haha, I relate to a lot of this stuff...I seriously must not be a strong introvert.

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    Frankly, its difficult to have a personality that wants to give.....you never know if the other person is up for it or can give you anything back......so end up with a ton of trial and error and you're usually very disappointed.......despite open communication.[/QUOTE]

    Totally agree here - I have read tons of books on open communication with others, but I am realising that perhaps I just need to have more open communication with myself - and bloody listen to my intuition as soon as I start wanting to take care of a potential partner or I think 'O-Ow'...

    Once I care about someone it's hard to see the forest for the twigs I am stabbing myself with because I am not a tree.



    I don't think there is a risk of the average ENFJ missing the opportunity to explore a romantic possibility - more likely a risk of taking on someone else's s&*^t and being blamed for it all in the end when you can't save them...[/QUOTE]

    I want to say alot..but most of it is already said...I suppose another way you know an ENFJ is the friend you have who is best friend to all but they are just as happy hanging out on their own....I love my me time.
    for my life is slowed up by thought and the need to understand what I am living.

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    Quote Originally Posted by The Third Rider View Post
    Used to ask myself why I only attracted people who had issues as well. I guess is that we can be too nurshuring and we just walk around trying to save poeple but in return we (or atleast on my case) never get anything back in return. Not that this is the only reason that you help people but after a while you wonder if its even worth it anymore or if you are going too far trying to help others. I personally have promised myself to not try to get as involved as I used to, sometimes me trying to help things have gotten me in messes that I should have never been in.
    sigh...moi aussi.
    for my life is slowed up by thought and the need to understand what I am living.

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    You know you're an ENFJ when you meet an INTJ and you might as well have come from two completely different galaxies.

    "I have no need for good souls; an accomplice is what I want"--Sartre


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