I could make a loooooong list of things I realize about my ENFJ self.
My friends think I'm psychic....LOL.....I've never been able to explain to anyone how I can 'feel' what is going on with people....even in a crowd. Its nearly impossible to lie to me.
Must be why I have so much trouble finding a nice girl to settle down with.
Do you think you have the whole knight in shining armor thing going on?
I've eased up out of the role of saving people over the past few years. It got too expensive.
Relationships have normal ebbs and flows. They do not automatically get better and better when the participants learn more and more about each other. Instead, the participants have to work through the tensions of the relationship (the dialectic) while they learn and group themselves and a parties in a relationships. At times the relationships is very open and sharing. Other time, one or both parties to the relationship need their space, or have other concerns, and the relationship is less open. The theory posits that these cycles occur throughout the life of the relationship as the persons try to balance their needs for privacy and open relationship. Interpersonal Communication Theories and Concepts Social Penetration Theory 1 Social Penetration Theory 2 Social Penetration Theory 3