I can tell when ENFJs are putting on a friendly face but suffering internally and it breaks my heart to watch. There are people who want to help and love you....but they can't if you're rarely ever being "you". Iím not saying the balance is easy to maintain because I know it's a very delicate balance, and I'm not saying that I have it all together and figured out because I don't. Iím just trying to offer some encouragement. You might be surprised by how many people would accept the real you if given the chance.