Please people. This thread originally began as so many other threads begin about Fe but it turned into something better. If anyone wants to read a thread pitting Fi and Fe against each other do a search because there are plenty of them on the forum.
There are times when you must compromise and times when compromise leads to destruction; that's a common platitude. It's the difference between having no backbone and having a steel beam for a spine. Both of those restrict movement. This isn't all or nothing.