Well? Are you?
NFs have historically been complainers.
It's not so bad -- really, it isn't. Complaint comes from frustration with current status. Frustration with current status comes from vision for improvement. But at the same rate, they are notoriously horrible at solving the problems effectively. This is why they choose to complain rather than act.
Or if not, they'll torture themselves by continuing to develop, and simultaneously attach themselves to their vision.
So then they must complain more.
But they won't sit down and do the work.
Or so it seems.
Perhaps the NFs just like to suffer under their oppressive vision and circumstances.
After a while, people become frustrated by the NF's complaints, and begin to wonder about the NF's purpose.
"Is this person a fiend? Do they complain so much as an attempt to manipulate me?"
And then the NF gets a reputation for being manipulative.
And the people alienate themselves.
Their circumstances have now gotten worse.
So they will complain more.
They saw it coming, and did nothing about it.
It really appears as though they thrive on pain.