If I may, I wish to offer my perspective as a male.
Albeit repulsed seems too strong of a word, I agree with you. I seem to forge at least a connection with an F faster than I would with a T. In regards to a relationship with someone, I need perspective and being with a T has certainly provided that. I'm probably already volatile as it is, so why enhance that further? Overall, T's provide me with a balance that I've desired.