03-21-2016, 01:37 PM #9321Deep into that darkness peering, long I stood there, wondering, fearing, doubting, dreaming dreams no mortal ever dared to dream before.
E. A. Poe
03-21-2016, 01:46 PM #9322
If you have a good one, do please share.
From Typo C's (different from the other)
The counterphobic stance of the sexual Six can be seen in competition for attracting the right mate, and in testing to see who is worthy of trust. This is true of both sexual subtypes and especially true of the sexual/social. This type is likely to be found quite commonly among actresses and actors as they tend towards a dramatic presentation. Their need to be identified with their desirability and their strong social instinct, combine to sometimes make them public figures. They are less possessive of their mates, but still feel the need to have control in the relationship. They can have a very focused intensity. They can appear Four-like in their desire to express themselves and give into their passions. They define themselves in accordance with the prevailing gender norms opting to appear masculine or feminine as the case may be. This outward energy is sometimes counterbalanced with inward doubting, which can lead to depression, anger, and acting out, at the lower levels of health.
Anxiety isn’t as noticeable with the sexual variant of type Six, especially when the self-pres instinct is last. The typical things we associate with anxiety aren’t obvious with this subtype. Their anxiety is focused in the arena of relationships, and since their stance is mostly counterphobic, anxiety is not always obvious, and the Six too might be unaware of its presence. This can be true of all the subtypes of type Six. Their anxiety exists at a core level so that Sixes don’t always know how to gauge its existence. So, even the more visibly anxious subtypes might not be aware of their underlying anxiety. The sexual/social can appear Eight-like, in their defense of their loved ones and social standing.
This is overall the “lightest” type Four when it comes to social interaction. They are likely to utilize charm and humor. This type is more scattered and can be down right disorganized. They can drift through life always feeling like an outsider, yet they usually have friends. They can alternate from being the life of the party to withdrawing. Intimates will know of their insecurities and dark moody side while acquaintances will see a softer, friendlier side. This subtype’s energy is geared towards people, but they never feel as though they really fit in. They are often quite creative, talented people who have many interests, but they frequently lack the energy to actually accomplish what they would like. They can drift and withdraw very easily. When healthy and with the right support from friends (and perhaps a little push) they tap into their instinctual energy. When they do this, they begin to see how much they can accomplish. A positive connection to others helps them stay focused.
Overall this sounds more me. But do you agree? Sounds even Ni-Fe like from Personality Junkie. I think I represent the first few sentences from even being on Typology Central.
Although I believe I am a 4w5, not a w3 so you and I may seem like we're not exactly alike. Although if you do relate to this so/sx description strongly I'd even make a stronger case for you being INFJ.obviously you're going to get nothing from reading this
03-21-2016, 02:03 PM #9323
Is that single line the only issue you have the the sx 6 description?
03-21-2016, 02:07 PM #9324
03-21-2016, 02:09 PM #9325
Skip me unless you really want to type me.obviously you're going to get nothing from reading this
03-21-2016, 02:23 PM #9326Deep into that darkness peering, long I stood there, wondering, fearing, doubting, dreaming dreams no mortal ever dared to dream before.
E. A. Poe
03-21-2016, 02:29 PM #9327
Do you believe there is such thing as evil? Sorry if it doesn't lead you to the right place, just find the post.
Can you even infer how I got to this if it wasn't something nearly related? Pretty dark imo.
I relate to push/pull. As a child, I'd purposely do something mildly wrong then get myself to feel guilt for fun and then indirectly tell my friends I did it and they would stop talking to me for a while and I could feel human that way. Tell me that doesn't sound 4ish at all.
I'd also self-disclose to people and then until they got sad I'd try to then start to cover it and say it's nothing (it isn't but I could stand it for a bit and the sadness on their faces were too much so I would try to soothe their feelings and then that would seem like they couldn't trust me) and then start again once they got back to normal. It's why people sometimes hate 4's because they play with their feelings but it's not like how a 2 does it either.
Also that I'm older and more mature. I'm a little bit more rational haha. But it does still happen depending on my level.obviously you're going to get nothing from reading this
03-21-2016, 02:37 PM #9328
Post seems like a description of a deep trauma, not necessary 4 related.
But Forever, type yourself as you feel is right for youself. I just offer my opinion and my opinion is subjective based only on what I see online. Be a 4 if it feels right to you. I am not one of those people who will fight with you about your own type. None knows your own self better than you. Be yourself and be whatever is right for your own being.Deep into that darkness peering, long I stood there, wondering, fearing, doubting, dreaming dreams no mortal ever dared to dream before.
E. A. Poe
03-21-2016, 02:38 PM #9329obviously you're going to get nothing from reading this
03-21-2016, 02:41 PM #9330
E. A. Poe
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