But I could just be used to seeing ENTJs as more blunt/steamrolling than you.
Talked about it in a few threads. I use Fe a lot and my jargon - or social facade if you will - is most often that of the ESTP or ENTP. Maybe even ENFP or ENFJ sometimes. I only bring out my inner asshole J-monster NT when i'm being sincere. It's a learned behavior, which i've had to evolve because I can't go around "steamrolling" people all the time. I wonder if this makes me an intelligent ENTJ, somehow? Sorry, i'm just taking on the roll of jester now.
I've heard somewhere that a person takes on and sheds many roles during each and every day in his or her life... Do you always act your type?
I look at cognitive functions instead of seeing the type in every action of mine or others... To know my inner self, you would truly have to be me.
Or somehow recieve completely honest and completely true answers from me, which could be hard, since there is no such thing as truth.
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