What type of person are you looking for in a lover?
Physical/mental/emotional/spiritual... whatever. Be as detailed as possible. Long or short term.
I'm not 100% sure. I know that I'm attracted to guys that have big hearts and are good with children. I'm also attracted to guys that are socially an emotionally intelligent (sort of overlaps with having a big heart but what ev). I'm currently interested in an ENFP that's in my art class...dunno if it will work out but we'll see.
That's attraction but when it comes to standards I won't date a guy that isn't/doesn't:
*have a spiritual life
*respectful of others
*psychologically healthy (of course)