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    Quote Originally Posted by The Great One View Post
    Yeah, try to avoid that.
    And on the other hand, a few here have said that it's all I'll be able to get.

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    Quote Originally Posted by The Ü View Post
    And on the other hand, a few here have said that it's all I'll be able to get.
    No. If you keep trying, you'll eventually get a woman. You can't consistently fail. There has to be success somewhere down the line.

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    No. Most wouldn't find them sexy. Except maybe hipsters. Even though new shoes are more appealing generally, won't likely be the reason someone likes you. Just sayin'
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    Quote Originally Posted by UniqueMixture View Post
    As long as you persist in trying to increase your social value materialistically rather than realizing that you are a person of inherently high social value who simply has to interact openly to be accepted you will continue to struggle with this U.
    How can I be of high social value then?

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    Quote Originally Posted by The Ü View Post
    How can I be of high social value then?
    You missed his point completely. He's saying that all people are of high social value. If you could accept yourself for who you are you wouldn't be so angry with people or absorbed in yourself, and that would make you more attractive to other people as a friend and a potential romantic partner.

    The value is already there. You just have to recognize it.

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    Yes. You have finally stumbled on it. Converse All-Stars are the secret not only with women but success in life in general!!!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Mane View Post
    I hate that i cant pull those off while maintaining my masculinity on a sociological level - women have all the fun these days :-(
    I think you just have to forget about pulling them all the way off.

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    Quote Originally Posted by The Ü View Post
    How can I be of high social value then?
    Lots of ways. I think you in particular should focus on treating women with respect and not demanding anything in return, but expecting to be treated with respect as all human beings deserve to be treated. This will help create a positive feedback loop in which you will respect others so you can relate/sympathize with how THEY feel so you can mutually relate, have your feelings respected, and then feel esteem for creating mutually satisfying interaction that helps fulfill your basic needs (and their's at the same time). Right now, you feel isolated so you treat others disrespectfully to get them to sympathize with how you feel. Try having them relate to you in a positive way around enjoyable similarities so they can identify with you and care for you. Also, get off pof. I think it's fucking with your mind bro. You have to learn how to express your sexual needs in a way that is respectful too. Also, you have to learn how to escalate sexual tension especially through physical touch in respectful ways progressively over time.
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    The probability of it being appealing is proportional to your certainty.

    In other words - if you have to ask, then probably not. :P

    Also note the caveat that attempts to knowingly increase appeal may work out in reverse and decrease appeal instead. This seems to happen a lot - if everyone loves it and you do it because you see that everyone loves it, then it magically becomes uncool.

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    Quote Originally Posted by UniqueMixture View Post
    Lots of ways. I think you in particular should focus on treating women with respect and not demanding anything in return, but expecting to be treated with respect as all human beings deserve to be treated. This will help create a positive feedback loop in which you will respect others so you can relate/sympathize with how THEY feel so you can mutually relate, have your feelings respected, and then feel esteem for creating mutually satisfying interaction that helps fulfill your basic needs (and their's at the same time). Right now, you feel isolated so you treat others disrespectfully to get them to sympathize with how you feel. Try having them relate to you in a positive way around enjoyable similarities so they can identify with you and care for you. Also, get off pof. I think it's fucking with your mind bro. You have to learn how to express your sexual needs in a way that is respectful too. Also, you have to learn how to escalate sexual tension especially through physical touch in respectful ways progressively over time.
    I did stop using POF, I'm using OKCupid now.

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