Nah. I've given up on that shite. Fuckin' pointless, mate, there's no balance.
NO ONE GIVES UP. Even you. But you can give up on mupltiple levels.You can give up consciously, which I belive you have, and give up subconsciously, which you have to be a fucking zen master to dol. Since you're not a zen master, i'm assuming you haven't truly given up, and are just waiting for someone compatible. you're a good guy tho, i think. i'd recommend you to friends, even though you're a bit on the arrogant side. Not in a horrible way, though, because i think you're kind deep down.
Kindness is my main criteria.
Either you've got to jump through 100 hoops, or jump through a hoop which has been jumped through by 100 others.
Some people, girls and guys, suck balls. Luckily I've avoided them for the past few years, since I don't really pick up at clubs or bars.