What's the difference between who you are and the way othewrs perceive you?
A: There's actually not much difference, for on a day to day basis I respond to my friends emotionally. And what they see is what I am. However I do have intellectual interests which are not apparent on a daily basis. And also I have a very strong interest in the inner life which is also not apparent on a daily basis.
Q: Do the damaged and the damaging seek positions of power from which they can act out their damage on others?