blankpages- Not sure, you seem to just be a reader here. Or you're taking a long time to get your Fe acquainted before you feel comfortable.
No idea why you stand out. It might just be that you were one of the first posters I became familiar with, or the fact that you're known for a couple specific things (cat theme, enneagram expertise). It's not that your vibe is that different from the other male ISFPs; it isn't really.
It's true that I went for a long time without posting much, but I'm starting to post more now.