actually i get mad at you quite a bit i think its the ESTJ INFP thing happening I'm not mad at you right now and I know you tell me to tell you but honestly it be like hey *poke* hey *poke* hey i'm mad at you way to often and you'd just be like AUGHR SHUT UP!!! probably. the point is are they saying this to you are you assuming they're saying this? because i'd imagine if you didn't they'd be fine.
ok not quite a bit, ok maybe quite a bit. the point is i don't know the point. the point is i can't imagine why this would even be an expectation. my mom has the same one, and i'm like no no no they don't. (you should so sing that last little bit to the tune of row row row your boat, like i did, maybe it will help allieavate the frustration? )