It is not my fault that the customer in front of you in line has 2 western union sends and a bill pay. It is also not my fault that my manager won't send any coworkers to come help and screams at me when I call her over to help with difficult customers. I am not "terrible customer service" because of things that are 100% out of my control and I fucking hate people who get piss with me when I am literally just doing my job
knowing what makes us happy
is sometimes the hardest thing to do
Grief is a personal expression. I can't believe I was repeatedly hassled for being withdrawn and quiet at a memorial service. It adds outrage to bereavement, resulting in an angsty anguished feeling.
Yes, it's bullshit when someone tells you how you should react in a situation like that. Everyone deals with that stuff in their own way. Nobody should be stigmatized for not acting traumatized or weeping or terrified in response to bad news.
I imagine it's worse for women.
Winterman is coming through the forest down to his Chrimbus cave inside the woods. Now's the time to tell him everything you want inside your Chrimbus bush!