Thread: The Rant Thread
12-08-2014, 06:35 AM #4601
12-08-2014, 08:10 AM #4602
What the hell is wrong with the youngsters nowadays, why are you so goddamn whimpy?!
I'm not really loud or boisterous, but my whimpy classmates make me seem like I'm an extroverted monkey on speed...I'm a green bean killing machine.
12-08-2014, 11:26 AM #4603
And life goes on...
Too tired to do anything atm.
12-08-2014, 01:08 PM #4604
After watching Regular Show, I've realised I'm the Rigby of my own life.'Consciousness is not simply a sensory-perceptual affair, a matter of mental imagery, as the contents of our mind would have us believe. It is deeply enmeshed with the brain mechanisms that automatically promote action readiness' - Jaak Panksepp
12-08-2014, 03:02 PM #4605
I guess I'm only love sick when I'm talking about my private life.
12-10-2014, 03:03 AM #4606
I just can't get over him.. No matter what I do.. I can't find peace in my heart. Fuck me. Shit.We are more than the sum of our parts.
12-10-2014, 03:20 AM #4607
- Join Date
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- SEE Fi
It's super hard when you really feel close to someone, like the intimacy factor, so don't be hard on yourself. Let yourself be you don't have to "get over it" but if you are depressed focus on activities you enjoy, especially things that are easier to do without him or thoughts of him consuming you. This will remind you of the whole capable person that you were before you met him, and that you can be even if totally celibate.
Cognitive Behavioral Therapy works. Even if you feel bad, if you start reframing things you can possibly bounce back quicker than you thought. It's ok to grieve, but changing the way you think about things actually will eventually improve your emotional state. And sometimes you will still think of him, you didn't fail, life goes on, you are human.
Information is so important. Learning that love is a choice was so meaningful for me.
Even without sex, emotional affairs and crushes occur. This can be almost or just as painful, depending on how close you two were, or how you idealized him. Eugene Onegin is the best book about romantic crushes. When Tanya realizes, there is no real Onegin. Don't like books, ok, but still you can focus on what actually happened, how did this person treat you, what quality did he have that you admired, and that love ultimately is a choice and is about bonding with another person, not chasing. Chasing is infatuation, and the basis for most relationship dysfunction from crush to dramatic sexcapades that end in murder suicide. THAT IS NOT LOVE.
12-10-2014, 12:50 PM #4608
if that other person hadn't always been there, incessantly hogging every possibility, I believe things would have been different. it's quite sickening really.
12-10-2014, 01:04 PM #4609
You are only MY Angel.
12-10-2014, 01:08 PM #4610
My brother is a dingbat. He is the least reliable person I have ever known, and I am constantly surprised that he has managed to live as long as he has.WOOP WOOP WOOP
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