Ladies, these are two of the most ridiculous rants I've ever heard.
Coming from this INTJ, who has been known to pull a romantic thing or two in the past, two things you might want to consider are that: 1) sometimes the thought really should count, and your man simply wanted you to know that he was thinking about you, and clearly in a very admiring, loving, fond way, and wanted to do this for you, but reality got in the way; and 2) maybe he's a little insecure that, if he does it, you won't like it, or will think it's totally cheesy, or something, so he mentioned it to see how you would react. A negative reaction here might not be the best of things.
Huh, this is insightful. Like violaine said... He always comes across as so self-assured... that I never even considered the 2nd possibility. Thank you, Z.
Can I just... ugh, getting sick of where I am and most of all getting annoyed by the people who seem to not care about the other people involved in this once in a lifetime chance... anyway, guess I should just accept that some people are completely immature and honestly don't understand anything about leadership...
9w1 sp "The Dreamer"
New here with little knowledge of what any of this means
New ways of thinking
As much as I respect type suggestions, I don't see why I should have to prove myself to be under a certain label, like it's some exclusive special club reserved for the rightful few?? I know I may not appear stereotypically as one type and may seem more like other types. Big surprise! - life circumstances and mental illness will sway manifestation in more ways than you're personally aware of. Shit happens, but cognitive functions are all still there regardless.