It's fun to ask them directly what compelled them to make the comment. In a neutral, non-antagonistic way. They shift around a bit uncomfortably, sometimes. Thinking. I enjoy that.
I get comments on being 'too pale' at times, and the same thing applies. I got tired of people telling me I 'needed a tan.' Yeah, I'll go cook my skin just to make you feel comfortable. Pff.
Some people will always find things to be critical about in unconstructive ways. The brat side of me just says, make them uncomfortable back by pointing out how obviously tactless/ignorant the commentary is, or if it were someone I cared about, I'd be more direct in analyzing/resolving that issue, though. Maybe they're projecting their own insecurities, & maybe asserting one's own self-acceptance can indirectly help them to do the same, over time.. if that makes sense.
Thread: The Rant Thread
03-21-2014, 03:50 PM #360103/23 06:06:58 EcK: lex
03/23 06:06:59 EcK: lex
03/23 06:21:34 Nancynobullets: LEXXX *sacrifices a first born*
03/23 06:21:53 Nancynobullets: We summon yooouuu
03/23 06:29:07 Lexicon: I was sleeping!
04/25 04:20:35 Patches: Don't listen to lex. She wants to birth a litter of kittens. She doesnt get to decide whats creepy
02/16 23:49:38 ygolo: Lex is afk
02/16 23:49:45 Cimarron: she's doing drugs with Jack
03/05 19:27:41 Time: You can't make chat morbid. Lex does it naturally.
03-21-2014, 03:54 PM #3602LadyLazarusGuest
What the hell does high CPU usage even mean?!
I'm going to throw this freaking laptop out the window!
Why did I buy this one?
03-21-2014, 04:03 PM #3603
What? You mean I wasn't who you thought I was? What a fucking useful sentiment.
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03-21-2014, 04:03 PM #3604
03-21-2014, 06:08 PM #3605
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03-22-2014, 02:24 PM #3606
I know a guy who had a fuck buddy. Then one day his fuck buddy decided to friend zone him. From that day on, this former fuck buddy only used this guy to rate her new boyfriends, to protect her from other men whenever she went out and to buy expensive stuff for her. I heard this guy mention that even seeing her once a year really hurt his wallet. Not that she ever gave him something back for the things he had done. I don't like girls like this. They give us other girls a bad name.Ewww is the new sexy
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03-22-2014, 06:20 PM #3607
Last edited by Ivy; 03-22-2014 at 08:54 PM. Reason: content deletedPerfectly robust chickens
Run laps a lot
Pee on the garden
Leap over fences
Cock is a word for rooster
Hen is a type of chicken?
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Nice chickens don't belong in the
03-22-2014, 11:13 PM #3608
HOLY FUCKING FUCK FUCK FUCK!! A MASSIVE COCKROACH JUST RAN OUT OF ONE OF THE FUCKING ORDER BAGS. IT WAS THE SIZE OF A FUCKING DALMATIAN. WHAT THE ACTUAL FUCK WORK?! WHY DO YOU HAVE COCKROACHES THAT I HAVE TO DEAL WITH?!!
Terrible things happen to good people every day.
Consequentially, I am not one of the good people.
I am one of the terrible things..
03-23-2014, 12:50 AM #3609
03-23-2014, 06:20 AM #3610
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