Sugar coated selfishness is bleh - and strangely very much like long fingernails.
The first man to raise a fist is the man who's run out of ideas. H.G. WELLS
The first principle is that you must not fool yourself, and you are the easiest person to fool. FEYNMAN If this is monkey pee, you're on your own.SCULLY
I've given up on people who enjoy sitting in their own pool of depression. If you truly want to move forward emotionally, you will help yourself. I'm not going to help you even if I try if you don't want it yourself.
people who expect a change
who can't throw away their humanity
who stay idle in growth
who won't dirty their hands
those are the most terrifying of monsters