I like to play with words. I don't always consider their effect on sensitive people.
That is a failing on my part.
One you might recognise.
I think you like to minimize your own vengefulness and insensitivity as playfulness. But, I think you do this out of a feeling of persecution, so I don't personally take issue with it. It is sensible from your perspective.
"Create like a god, command like a king, work like a slave."
You sound so sure of yourself and your wholesale evaluation of life. Perhaps you are absolutely, stone correct. But, then perhaps not.
I wish people would acknowledge the complexity of things. The world is a multitude of ways. Not one way. It is not simply a dark place or a good place or a happy place. It is every possible thing you could possibly imagine. If you seek tragedy, you will find it in no short supply. If you seek comedy, you will find it in no short supply. If you seek meaning or meaninglessness, it is all there for you. Whatever you are inclined to see.
If someone treats me hateful, if they are violent or overly aggressive towards me, if they are sadistic to me, I won't make excuses for them and won't keep them around in my life. I fail to see what the rest of your post has to do with the issue.
EDIT: and yes I am sure, I don't want sadists in my life and I am sure i don't want to make excuses for them.